Friday, March 25, 2011


Isn't it sad when people out there judge others. Maybe some people don't care about how they judge others, they think it's okay to do it. I'm talking about the type of judgement that is really unkind and unfair. The kind of judgement that is about making the other person look bad, while they try to make themselves look good and boost their own ego.

I don't understand why people are so unkind to each other. Why they basically feel like they have the right to sit in judgement of others. Even to be nasty and make people feel bad.

None of us are perfect and we are all mostly striving to live the best life that we can .... some seem to survive really well and do things easily and for others it is a bit more of a struggle. There is always hope that people will improve and change ..... given a chance they can grow and progress.

We may not always like the way other people are, but that doesn't mean we have to hate them or treat them badly ...... we don't need to think that we are better than them and that they are not worth knowing or being with or around. We can all learn something from others.

I just think that sometimes we need to be a little kinder and to focus on the good things that people do, even when they are doing something that is not so good, at least in our minds. What is the harm in being a little bit kinder and a little bit gentler. We don't have to agree or like everything that people do, but we don't need to hate people either.
One of the jobs that I used to have involved answering phones on private answering services and paging services. Often people would ring up and be really angry or rude. I rarely ever knew why unless they said, but in my mind I would often be thinking I wonder what has happened to them this morning or maybe the night before that has made them behave the way they are.
I wish just for one day ..... everyone would be a little bit nicer and a little bit kinder ... and show love and compassion towards another. Wouldn't it be great to have a WORLD KINDNESS DAY or a NO JUDGEMENT DAY !!! If just for one day we could do something nice for someone else ... not to gain anything, but just for nothing, just to make another's day nice. If just for one day we could decide not to judge anyone .... I think the world would be so much the better for it. Just maybe for one day we could all work on mending our bridges with others and putting aside our differences, to start life anew, sure in the knowledge that there is hope to make the world a better place.

1 comment:

Kris said...

Evey day should be kindness day. I think though that it would be good to have a day. Cause maybe then some people would think about it.